Saturday 21 February 2009

Paul update - Day 101

Day 101 (I think!) – Saturday 21 February

In answer to Mark’s comment, I am 99% certain I spelt Ceilidh correctly but Mr Gates obviously changed it without me noticing – have a look at the Word spell checker and you will see he spells it with a K! In answer to Laura’s comment – yes, you’re right – Paul’s entry to the blog is being done at exactly the same rate as his homework; i.e. he isn’t doing it!!

So, a brief update from me!

Paul is doing very well and we have recently passed a couple of milestones. Firstly, he has started working back at the garage, initially for just a few hours a day but this is gradually increasing and he is coping very well. It is very good for him as well because he has to concentrate on what is going on, he has to handle money and credit cards, write receipts and deal with the customers and even when it’s busy, he is managing very well. His hours will be gradually increased because he is still finding it quite tiring, but this is definitely a major step forward.

He is gradually reverting back to his old habits of not going to bed and not getting up though, but we keep nagging him and hopefully this will improve.....once the pigs have been refuelled and are ready for takeoff.

The other thing he did today was ride his bike for the first time. He did admit that he found it more difficult than he expected but he and I went for about a 4 mile ride this afternoon which went very well.

He has also dug out the radio control cars and has started using them again which is good for his co-ordination. So, all in all, things are progressing well. He is still having regular physio / speech / occupational therapy both at home and in town – this will continue for the next few months and then we will review where we are.

The only bit of “bad” news that we have had is that Paul is starting to talk about driving again and is keen to get another car, so we have written to DVLA to advise them of his accident and the hospital has written to the organisation that evaluates drivers after a serious head injury, but there is a 32 week wait before they can see him. If we go to Edinburgh (where they are based) it is 20 weeks, but he is keen to get behind the wheel in advance of this so he is hoping to get a cancellation.

Hopefully we will persuade Paul to post a blog in the near future, but in the meantime I will try and post an update whenever anything significant occurs.

Hope you are all fit and well,

Best wishes,

Martyn

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

All good news, it's great to hear he's back at work, thats a big step forwards.

I suppose you should always "get back on the horse" after you fall off, but please be careful!

I'm coming back for the weekend of the 6-8th of March, so I'll maybe see you all then.

Lots of love
Holly xxx

Anonymous said...

/\ Me too. I don't think driving's a good idea though. Give him a slap from me ^_^

Stuart x

Gavin said...

Paul seems to have the same capacity for bodily damage as Wile E. Coyote. He is very easily (and frequently) injured, but seems to be able to shrug off wounds that would have killed a normal human being.

Glad to hear things are still picking up, see you soon

Gavin xx

Anonymous said...

I'm up next weekend too so will no doubt see you all then. It's crazy to think those two weekends in November when we all visited him are over 3 months ago now, yet at the time we didn't know what the future would hold. It's great to hear everything is still going well.

See you all soon,
Laura xxxx